The most selfish one-word
letter is "I", everything revolves around I and
what is I stands for, I stands for expectations. E.g.
· I should be treated like this.
· I should be loved like this.
· I should be dealt like this.
· I should be respected like this.
· I should be given these many marks.
· I should not be given this.
· I should be treated like this.
· I should be loved like this.
· I should be dealt like this.
· I should be respected like this.
· I should be given these many marks.
· I should not be given this.
We all are leading a
life of super high expectations, everything revolves around.
· My opinions.
· My desires.
· My likes.
· My dislikes
· I loved this.
· I want this.
· I don't want this.
· I, I, I, I, I.....
· My opinions.
· My desires.
· My likes.
· My dislikes
· I loved this.
· I want this.
· I don't want this.
· I, I, I, I, I.....
You think life will be a
very happy life when it revolves around “I”.
From our childhood we
are grown up like this, we only learned to take and everyone has to full fill
my expectations, everything is up to my expectations.
The more we lead a life
of "I", our eye will always be frustrated because people don't exist
in this world to just fulfilled your expectations.
Therefore, the most
selfish one-word letter is I, and I extends for expectations and therefor avoid
this word.
How do you avoid this
word, be realistic in your expectations, having expectations is not a problem
but understand that everyone will not fulfill your expectation.
Secondly avoid this word
"I" by trying to serve others, because when you want to be served you
depended on people they may not serve you, when you want to serve who can stop
you. When you want respect, people may not respect you but when you want to
give respect, who can stop you.
When you want to be
loved, you may not be loved but when you want to give love who can stop you.
When you want charity,
people may not give you charity but when you want to give charity who can stop
you and therefor learned to begin your journey from I to YOU.
The more you want to
yourself, you will remain frustrated. The more you want to give you will remain
happy.
ADVICE from Gaur Gopal Das
Amazing writing..
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ReplyDeleteJourney from "I" to "you" .. nicely explained.
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